Steps

1. Talk about it with your partner. The simple act of talking could make it easier for both of you to initiate. At the very least, a conversation will show your partner that you care.
2. Take a vacation together, even a short weekend. The burden of daily life sometimes leaves us with no lust whatsoever.
3. Attend counseling sessions with a therapist. Emotional distress might cause the loss of libido, and you may feel that you need professional help. Many times stress will have a negative effect on the physical side of the relationship. Stress in the job, or financial concerns lay heavily on the mind, and it effects the body itself.

Tips

• Sleep well. Fatigue is a major cause for losing one's sexual appetite.
• Don't let the myths about other people's sex lives get in the way of what's happening in yours.
• Consult your doctor. You may also consider seeing a doctor with your partner.

Warnings

• Don't shut yourself out. You need to deal with this.
• Don't pretend it's not an issue. Sex is crucial for a good relationship.